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#MENTOO

 Rape molestation and assault
A woman comes in our mind
Those rapist who aren’t yet caught
Brings anger , but though we are blind.
In this world of meetoo movement,
We forgot those men ,
Who also need inducement,
Who died by hanging on fan.
Sexual exploitation or assault,
Can also happen with them.
But the woman in fault,
Reverse the obligation towards them.
Lets fight for the man,
Who are judged for the gender.
Let’s make them feel they can,
Speak out ! And make thier perpetrators surrender.
                                  _INSIYAPATANWALA
 
 
Sexual assault can happen to anyone, no matter your age, sexual orientation, or gender identity. SO , Rape. The word reminds us of harrowing crimes against women like the Nirbhaya gang-rape, unprecedented protests held by citizens across the country, and national debates involving various stakeholders including lawmakers and activists.
However, the word is associated with a basic assumption: a man unleashes brutal sexual violence on a woman. In our national debate about rape, rape on males is rarely, if ever, addressed.
ACTUAL PROBLEM:
1. “Men can’t get raped”
WHO SAID IT, WE ALL DO. BECAUSE MALE ARE STRONG AND PROTECT THEMSELVES , WHEREAS WOMENS ARE DICTATED AS WEAK , FRAGILE , ETC.Male survivors go through similar psychological torture as female victims, but because of the lack of supporting institutions and social acceptance, they are compelled to remain silent.
2. Mindset
If raped, a man is seen as unable to protect himself and at times labelled as ‘unmanly’.Worse still, survivors are dismissed because it is believed that they surely “must have enjoyed it”, a reasoning stemming from the thinking that men are ever-ready sexual beings, and thus the concept of ‘consent’ is often ignored in the context of men.
3. Absence of a strong legal framework
Patriarchal thinking is also reflected in our legal system. Section 375 of the Indian Penal Code does not include males as rape victims. The only route for a male victim to find justice is through Section 377, India’s anti-sodomy law, if he is assaulted by a male attacker. Sodomy, however, is not considered actual rape. Importantly, there is no distinction between consensual and non-consensual sexual acts between two male adults. If a female is the perpetrator, there is no mechanism for finding justice.
HOPE YOU PEOPLE AGREE WITH ME…..
 

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Who raised me with pride

so after writing so many times

and clicking on backspace for hundred times

finally i tried my best , to thank you

for all of your love and sacrifice you do

from the day i was born

You are my unicorn

those arms who cover me

 those fingers who hold me

your beautiful lullababies

to whom i listen even after infancy

you have not made a day without father to me

you know without you everything bother to me

those non stop jokes you crack

we laugh together , even if the humour lack

apart from laughs , you know my emotions

you are busy being a clown , when i cry oceans

whenever my mistakes converts into your fault

mom keeps all our plans at halt

but we enjoy them  on time

and hence we are partner in crime

you didnt taught me , whats right or wrong

you made me realize about it  u wanted me to be independent , not depended lifelong

you encouraged me to explore

my skills , my talent and much more

our bond is really different

you are more a bestfried to me , rather than just being a parent

everyone say i look like you

 a smaller girlier version of you

this 18 yrs spent with you

are golden memories of mine with you

this is what i want to say

and also i pray everyday

that i keep feeling safe , as you are around

no one can ever dare to give me a wound

i pray to god , for your healthy life

ohh! shit , i forgot your wife.

love you both my prettiest souls

no one can replace you both , as you both play major roles

_insiyapatanwala

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DIVYA ( a strange mystery)

“stop shouting ravi ” ,said maya .”i will shout!  because i cant take this obligations now, it has been 10 years we are together still you dont trust me” ,said ravi. Couple was busy  fighting on how maya doubt him for his friendship with divya and how ravi is irresponsible towards thier relationship.(divya was ravi’s colleague  and were best friends from childhood)in this chaotic situation a 9 year old little boy vivaan  ( their son) was peeping from the hole of the door in the room ravi heard his son whimpering and opened the door he took his child and make him go to sleep .

Next morning everything was normal but not for vivaan , his mother was extremely strict and on the other side ravi was his friendmaya never took vivaan seriously she used to misss her parents meeting , used to be out of town for days ………

but the worst part for the family was yet to come !couple used to fight every other day and maya’s behaviour towards vivaan was making him away from hervivaan was an average child and maya wanted him to score excellent , vivaan was a naughty child and had lots of complains from whichever place he visit.maya was  over possessive towards her relations with ravi and her child,  her intentions were not bad the her way was wrong.

Once maya had to go out for a week for a deal  , this made vivaan happy , that he can enjoy this week without any restrictions , maya leaves on sunday nightnext morinig the schedule remains the same but as vivaan returns home , he see one lady sitting on sofa waiting for him. vivaan asks her who she is ? she replies , i am divya your dads friend whole day vivaan and divya enjoys and vivaan starts getting attach to her , till evening she asks vivaan that keep it secret and not to share about her with anyonen , vivaan says ” yes do but have to promise me that you will also come everyday to meet me .she agrees and leaves.that night ravi see vivaan being happy enjoying and talking with himself . ravi thinks its because maya is not at home . next day too divya was waiting for him at home , she played with him enjoyed  and said him that “vivaan , beta you are the best , your mom doesnt love you .this repeated for next 4 days , during all of this days she told him that she loves him very much and cant leave him alone , ravi had no idea about it .on the last when maya was going to return ,  divya asked vivaan whom will he choose as a mother vivaan says “you”divya says that you have to kill your mom who hits you and even dont love you if you want me as your mother

That night was scary because a 9 year old child hits his mother on her head with a vase.hopefully maya didnt got major injury but his parents were shocked on how their child attacked on his own motheras it was attempt to murder case hospital registered a case against vivaaninspector aarav mehta was speechless knowing this scenario, he and his team went in search of divya but she was out of station for a deal and had to come after 3 days

As she reached police arrested her and asked vivaan whether she was with you and vivaan declined!everyone was amazed that divya was in front of him and he said that she was not the one , even divya said that she was at office and had left for the deal on saturday so it was impossible for her to meet vivaan they made the sketch of the lady whom vivaan used to meet and started finding her , police had no leads regarding ms duplicate divya even his parents parents dint knew her but the strange part was yet to come !the woman, police was finding didnt exist , according to vivaan she sometimes used to be with him during shower , watching tv having breakfast and even while playing this left ravi and maya horrified they decided to consult a child psychologist , and took vivaan to her after 1 hour session psychologist got to know that the woman he is seeing and talking continously is his illusion  and he is going through schizophrenia

As ravi and maya used to fight about divya this made vivaan think of her and due to harsh nature of maya he started creating an image of divya in his mind . he created divya as he want his mom to be and the attempt to murder was his mindset of bringing divya in his life and remove mayamaya was left speechless .psychologist asked them to spend more time with and control their fight , maya left her job and started spending time with vivaan , she enjoyed with him and made him understand she loves him very much after 6 months vivaan again had a session with psychologist , she asked him that , does divya aunty comes to meet you ? he declined and said i told her that i love my parents and not to come in my life and she never returned……. after returning vivaan wrote  divya  maya is my mother on his door of the room

Researchers believe high-conflict marriages take a toll on a child’s mental health for several reasons:

Kids are emotionally insecure , The parent-child relationship may be affected , Fighting creates a stressful environment. And can lead to many other problems

The psychotic symptoms of people with schizophrenia, such as hallucinations and delusions, may produce experiences that others consider bizarre and incomprehensible. Spiritual experiences, which are generally thought of as ‘special’ and ‘uncommon’ may be viewed as signs and symptoms of mental illness

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20 QUOTES by insiya patanwala

1) I AM HIGH IN LOVE WITH THE WAY YOU TOUCH MY VEINS.

2) SHE WAS A FIRE WHICH WAS DOUSE BY SOCIETY , SHE OVERCAME AS A FLAME AND CRUSHED HER ALL ANXIETY.

3) FIGHT BACK : BE A QUEEN NOT A SLAVE , FIGHT FOR YOUR RIGHT , NO ONE WILL EVEN DARE TO CAGE YOU .

4) BEFORE BREAKING SOMEONE’S HEART , REMEMBER EVEN YOU HAVE ONE .

5) IF YOU ARE UNABLE TO HANDLE LOVE , THEN WHY THE HELL YOU COMMIT IT .

6) WHENEVER I FEEL TO SPEAK OUT MY FEELINGS TO SOMEONE THEY APPEAR TO BE NONE.

7) THERE ARE PLENTY OF PERFECT CRIMES , BUT WE NEED THE PERFECT SOLUTION .

8) WONDERING HOW NEGATIVE THE CONSEQUENCES ARE ; BUT SOMEONE STILL BELIEVES POSITIVITY , HE WINS.

9) CUMULATE : HAND IN HAND , SHOULDER TO SHOULDER , LETS FIGHT BACK FOR OUR SOLDIER.

10) A SMALL STEP OF A MAN MAY MOTIVATE HIM FOR WHAT HE CAN.

11) I CANT HIDE MY FEELING ANYMORE, SO I TURNED THEM INTO ADORABLE VERSES.

12) THERE IS A PATH WAITING FOR EVERYONE, ITS UPON US TO SUCCEED

13) THE ONE WHO WAS A DEFINITION FOR ME OF LOVE , NOW IS A WORST REGRET.

14) DONT IMPRECATE EVERYTHING ON MY FORTUNE , THERE’S SOME OF YOU WHICH RUINED ME.

15) EVEN ON THE DAY WHEN MY EYES WILL BE CLOSED FOREVER , I WILL BE WAITING FOR YOU WITH MY OPEN HEART.

16 ) SHE LEFT A SECRET IN THE CLOSET OF MY HEART , AND MY HEART WILL NEVER LET IT TO BE APART.

17) I WAS SEARCHING MY HEART AND THEN FOUND IT UNDER YOUR SHOE.

18) A STEP TOWARDS YOU MAKES ME FEEL LITTLE CLOSER TO HEAVEN FEELING GALES OF LOVE.

19) EVERYONE HAS A GEM IN THEMSELVES , WE JUST HAVE TO FIND AND EXPLORE IT.

20) HE ALWAYS KEPT SAYING I LOVE YOU AND I’LL BE FOREVER WITH YOU , ” MADE ME HAPPY ” UNTIL I FOUND THIS WORDS WERE JUST NOT ONLY FOR ME.

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BED NUMBER : 533

Fighting with the deadliest disease,
At the last stage of cancer.
With lots of hope and ease,
Everyone is praying for me, will god answer?

Can’t say for how many days or months , I am still alive
But on this bed I recalled my whole life.
I am struggling since the age of five,
That time i only had my mom , now i also have my wife .

During my old days i struggled for money,
I compromised many things as being the eldest sibling.
I worked hard for my family whether it was winter or the day was sunny,
I stood up everytime after trumbling.

Always thought about savings,
Believed that let’s work hard today and enjoy tomorrow,
This killed my today’s cravings,
For my never coming tomorrow.

_insiyapatanwala

This poem means alot to me

As it’s a real life story of a hero who strugled his whole life for his family .

he left this year leaving alot of beautiful , happy memories for his family.

I hope, if i did justice to his feelings and messages to his family and others through my words

Thank you !

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TODAY’S SITUATION

2359 contacts
Still finding someone to call…
Whom to share ?
Would they even care

1k and above followers
Still can’t decide
Who actually wants read what I write ?

Alot of friends
Still alone
Unable to trust anyone
Because everytime I end up with betrayal

So many of ambitions and goals
But stopped by people saying “does it even have scope “

Whenever I try something new
Think that whether it would be accepted by society
Or will just remaine as a lame joke

Now I have learned to deal with this situations
That’s to go with flow
Let people shout .
I do what I know

_insiyapatanwala

This situations occur in most of our lives , it’s upon us how to deal with it .

Hope u all loved this poetry and are waiting for my next blog !

Thank you so much , keep supporting.

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THE PLANNED BETRAYAL

Never imagined this situation,

I will have to face so much frustration.

Where I just loved purely,

Where my friendship was true surely.

People for whom I cared,

Feelings with whom I shared.

Gave me pain and heartbreak,

I can’t believe they were so fake.

The story was amazing,

Before I got to know he was double dating.

I wasn’t able to follow him,

Told my curly haired bestfriend to keep an eye on him.

After some days everything seemed normal,

Untill and unless it was the day of formal

Me and my friends bunked this fest, (except my bestfriend)

For the enjoyment to the best.

There I saw him with a girl

Having hair curled .

Hands in hands ;hugging each other,

After kissing and cuddling further.

As they turned around,

You won’t believe what I found.

My boyfriend was dating no one else ,

But my best friend ; oops tears fells.

With clapping hands

I greeted them.

Good job my friends,

For this amazing planned betrayal.

_insiyapatanwala

A true friend or love is someone who are there for you in you tough situations and don’t create it.

A true friend or partner is someone who keeps their promises not break them with your hear.

A true friend or love is someone who neither leads nor follows, but walks with you don’t be the reason for you too stand alone.

So people choose people in your life wisely, whether whoever he / she is.

Thank you!

Hope you people are enjoying reading my blogs and they are helping in or relatable to your situations.

Regards:- Insiya Patanwala

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BIRTHDAY GIFT


Bestest couple people say

On Ig he tags me as his bae

That couple goals
With almost same clothes
Is just showing off
Because our relation got rough
He gifted me a car
Took me to bar
Got a necklace
With a dress backless
I stopped him at that moment
And told him, these are not love components.
I need your love and care,
Not posts for ig to share
On Ig , Snapchat , Twitter , Facebook
Do we just present our artificial look ?
It’s love not the game
That we can leave it’s incomplete frame…
He holded my hand
And said ,
I want you as my wife ,not as a girl friend
Stop those precious droplets from your eyes
On your birthday , I just want to see your smiles
Apart from this gifts , I have a precious thing
A PROMISE that I choose you and our love over everything
A promise for not teasing you when u get fat
A promise for not behaving as a brat
A promise to love you till my last breath
And even after death
Now let’s take a selfie as a best couple forever

And we won’t forget this moment ever !

~insiyapatanwala

Thank you ❣️

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WHY

From the day she is born she is said, ‘to be in her limits ‘
Why can’t she wear the clothes of her desire ?
Why is she told not to laugh in public ?
Why is she stopped by traveling alone ?
Whenever a man is assaulting or molesting her , why is she always blamed for no reason ?
Why always she have to compromise ?
Why besides of studies household work and marriage is given first priority in women’s case ?
Why her clothes are judged , whether she is in burqa or a skirt rapists do thier work , whyyyy ?
Why even in this modern world girls have to go through this stuff ?
Each and every women wants to ask , WHY ?

If you are not in this situation , it doesn’t mean it’s not happening with someone else .
*Sorry* if anyone found my words hurtful .
I didn’t want to hurt anyone intentionally !
~insiyapatanwala

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Always be as you are

She never leaves me alone in the dark
Whenever I cry on the dogs bark
She wipes my tears
And says “there’s nothing to fear “
When she is close and beside
I feel blessed and mesmerized
Replace , no ways ! I can’t even compare her to anyone
Her LOVE is so eternal
And though she is called MOM
The most beautiful human GOD formed .
_insiyapatanwala

In this cruel world and untrustworthy people we must have lost somewhere , but just because of mom we are secure in the world so never shout at her , tell her that how beautiful she is , she doesn’t need your money , she need her child

#respect #mom #life